Poem for Mother's Day

I loved you enough to insist you buy a bike with your own money that we could afford and you couldn't; I loved you enough to be silent and let you discover your handpicked friend was a creep; I loved you enough to stand over you for two hours while you cleaned your bedroom, a job that would have taken me fifteen minutes; I loved you enough to say, "Yes, you may go to Disney World on Mother's Day"; I loved you enough to let you see anger, disappointment, mistrust and tears in my eyes; I loved you enough not to make excuses for your lack of respect or you bad manners; I loved you enough to admit that I was wrong and ask your forgiveness; I loved you enough to ignore "what every other mother" did or said; I loved you enough to let you stumble, fall, hurt and fail; I loved you enough to let you assume the responsibility for your own actions, at 6, 10, and 16; I loved you enough to figure you would lie about the party being chaperoned but forgave you for it after discovering I was right; I loved you enough to shove you off my lap, let go of your hand, be mute to your pleas and insensitive to your demands...so that you had to stand alone; I loved you enough to accept you for what you are, not what I wanted you to be;

But most of all, I loved you enough to say "no" when you hated me for it.

THAT WAS THE HARDEST PART OF ALL.